When Texan parents get a divorce, matters of child custody must soon be dealt with. But is sole custody the right option, or would joint custody be a better fit? The answer will differ from family to family depending on a number of different factors.
Recently divorced Texas couples tend to experience some friction when it comes to their new child custody and child support agreements. Just as with any compromise, neither party is likely to be completely satisfied with the result of a divorce. Fortunately, the state publishes several useful resources to help parents adjust to their new relationships and responsibilities.
Divorcing parents in San Antonio may be prepared to invest a great deal of time, effort and emotion into battling it out with their soon-to-be exes over who gets custody of the kids. The negative feelings that they may currently share for each other likely have something to do with this, as their desire to punish their spouses for the others' parts in ending their marriages may be equally as strong as their concern for their kids' well-being. Yet if those involved in custody disputes such as these were able to peek into the future and see the results of their efforts, they may be more willing to work with their spouses to come to more amicable agreements.
For many in San Antonio, the first thing that they want to do after separating from their spouses is relocate. Putting distance between themselves and their exes may be seen as way of trying to move on in their lives. However, if a couple has children together, relocating after a divorce can complicate matters when determining child custody. As of 2013, the U.S. Census estimates that there are currently over 22 million children affected by custodial agreements. It is likely safe to assume that in at least some of those cases, the issue of custody agreement jurisdiction has come up.
It is not uncommon for child custody hearings in San Antonio to become contentious. Often, the negative emotions that divorcing spouses may feel towards each other combine with the love they have for their children to create a potentially explosive mix. This may cause a parent to lash out at the other in an attempt to undermine the his or her character (along with his or her parental abilities). While some may believe such action will support their own claims for custody, the court may actually view them as antics that may sabotage a parent’s efforts. This is especially true if one goes too far in heaving accusations at another.
Typically, matters involving child custody determinations in San Antonio are often easily resolved given that the both parents usually choose to remain in close proximity even after separating in order to stay in contact with their kids. There may be times, however, when employment obligations or other circumstances may prompt your ex to move to another state before your child custody hearing may be initiated. If and when this happens, the issue of who has jurisdiction in your case may suddenly come into play. This could potentially leave local courts contemplating whether your case presents an inconvenient forum.
Divorced parents in San Antonio often find that any changes to their material or geographical circumstances can dramatically impact their child custody agreements. Say, for example, that you just moved to Texas, yet your ex-spouse lives in another state with your kids. Can you ask a Texas family court to modify your agreement in light of your new situation?
When people in San Antonio hear the term “child abandonment,” they may conjure up the classic image of a young mother leaving her child on the doorstep of an orphanage in the middle of the night. At first glance, statistics may seem to support this assumption. Information share by the Child Welfare Information Gateway shows that as of 2014, there were over 415,000 children in foster care in the U.S. Yet many of these children’s cases may not meet the assumed definition of abandonment. In fact, each state has its own guidelines determining when a child might be considered to be abandoned.
Child custody cases in San Antonio may often become heated given both the raw emotion that the parties involved may feel towards each other and the sense that both may have that each should be awarded primary custody. Such factors may even prompt one side to level accusations of child abuse against the other in the hope that doing so will help his or her custody case.
It has been our experience here at The Law Office of Roland R. Esparza, P.C. that despite any disagreements divorcing couples in San Antonio may have with each other, their love for their children remains unchanged by their marital status. Following your separation, you and your ex-spouse will likely have to work together to come up with an amicable custody agreement (or have one assigned to you by the court). Yet what if you want to continue to communicate with your children even while they are not in your custody? Would you be violating your agreement by doing so?